TGI Fridays surveyed thousands of moms across the country to learn about how they really want to spend Mother’s Day, and it doesn’t involve breakfast in bed.

According to a recent survey, 70 percent of moms want a day to themselves and their top annoyance is cleaning up after the celebration.

The TGI Fridays survey asked participants about what they are hoping for on Mother’s Day:

  • 70 percent of moms want a day to themselves
  • 51 percent of moms want a good night’s sleep
  • 40 percent of moms want a self-care day (spa, manicure, massage)
  • 38 percent of moms want a night out with friends

The survey also asked respondents their top annoyances of Mother’s Day, key findings include:

  • Cleaning up after the party/celebration (47 percent) and feeling exhausted at the end of the day (33 percent)
  • Not being able to take a break from the everyday routine (36 percent)
  • Waking up early (30 percent) and no time alone (28 percent)