10 Strategies to Restore an Ailing Marriage
1.Get back to the fundamentals.
2. Stop taking one another for granted.
3. Put your spouse’s interests ahead of your own.
4. Put the relationship ahead of everything, including your children.
5. Seek forgiveness and really forgive.
6. Start over from scratch.
7. Choose to love.
8. Surround yourselves with people in healthy relationships.
9. Change the patterns.
10. Get counseling.
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